About me
Welcome, and nice to meet you!
Hi, I'm Lucia Engel, Speaker & Storyteller, with a background in drama therapy and creative therapeutic work.
I help people rewrite their stories, soften the shrinking and share their story from a safe place in their body so they'll light up the room.
We use storytelling - one of humanity's oldest arts of connection to align your voice to your Soul Spark. So it lands with truth, depth and impact.
I always believed life is beautiful and the base should feel safe and abundant.
I love open, expansive landscapes, different cultures, people, good food, art, stories, conversations, and everything that captures life's soul.
I had the blessing to have had many of these kinds of experiences. And still am.
But it hasn't always been like this. I felt depressed in my teens, tried lots of therapy, but couldn't grab a good flow. I moved at age twenty-six to the beautiful country of Guatemala, made major life changes and bloomed in a way i could never imagine.
I had several creative and communal businesses where creativity was high, as also business success.
But at the same time an undercurrent of unhealthy and unsafe relationships were happening. I kept asking myself why I stayed, and how to get out.
Untill one Sunday morning, my daughter was just ten years old. She had stopped playing weeks ago. Refused to see her friends. As I stepped into her darkened room, I called her name 'Yaiza?' When she turned, it hit me like lightning; the spark in her eyes had gone out! My breath stopped, my thoughts crashed all at once against a wall in my head and I thought; 'What have I done?!'
In that moment I made a life-changing decision. I looked at her, caressed her hair softly and said; 'don't worry, baby. Mommy is going to make this right again!'
I began turning my life upside down, looking under every stone and becoming willing to feel what I had spent years avoiding.
I learned emotions are signposts. They either send you home, or astray.
I ended the relationship.
I had to find safety in myself first.
And while I was walking this path I looked to the right. There was my daughter following my footsteps.
The spark in her eyes slowly returned.
And not only that. I noticed using stories in my workshops and therapies opened up space, possibility and hope for others to follow.
The story I once was so ashamed for
now lights up dark moments for others.
Because in every classroom
In every workspace
With every family
With any child
There are stories waiting for somewhere safe to land.
Stories we swallowed.
Stories we learned to shrink around.
Stories that are asking for new words.
And when we finally give those stories room to breathe, something changes.
We change.
Our voice becomes clearer.
Our relationships become more honest.
And what once kept us small can become the very thing that lights the way for someone else.
That is why I do this work.
To create spaces where people feel safe enough to soften, brave enough to speak, and free enough to let their spark be seen.
Many sparks together will light up the fire that changes the world into something better than how we found it.

My personal Journey
I grew up in a small, charming village in Brabant, in the south of the Netherlands: where cows grazed slowly in wide green fields, and the air often carried the distant, trembling sound of military airplanes practicing overhead.
There was a softness in the land… but a restlessness in the atmosphere. Inside my house parents were caring and hardworking. But there was one problem that change my whole life: we didn't do emotions.
Inside our home, there was always a kind of tension.
Emotions moved through the space like bees circling a honey pot they could never quite find: buzzing, searching, unsettled.
You could feel them in the air, but they were rarely named, rarely held.
My parents eventually divorced.
But strangely, nothing really changed.
The emotional undercurrent stayed the same: unspoken, undefined.
So when I grew up, and followed the same patterns in relationships, saw how my young daughter was affected by it when she got depressed. I saw my own trauma being transmitted.
One Sunday moring, when my daughter turned ten, I entered her darkened room, I suddenly realized she lost the spark in her eyes. A rush of powerlessness entered my body like a heavy weight and a deep panic overtook my mind. But soon I grabbed all of myself together and from that moment on I changed my life's direction. I dug deep, did the work and found the way back to her spark again, that suprisingly came back through my own Soul's Spark.
Self-love became my biggest mission. And Speaking with a Spark.
What makes me 'Me'
As a good therapist, I have a big, safe, warm heart.
And I’ve lived what I teach.
But maybe what makes me me…
is that I don’t just understand complex relational trauma patterns and the ways we protect ourselves: I translate them.
Into images.
Into stories.
Into something you can actually feel and recognize.
Because so much of what we carry is hard to grasp in words alone.
As I did with my clients in jail, and in my groupwork online, I work with the whole of you.
Your likes and dislikes
Your aspirations and wisdoms
Your emotions
Your nervous system
Your body
Your story
Your beliefs
Your way of expressing
Not to fix you, but to make visible what has been living inside you all along.
Always gently.
Sometimes with a bit of humor.
Often in a way that suddenly makes you go: oh… that’s me.
My ex-clients said: "I'm happy I'm in jail, because now I have therapy with you'. or: "I felt safe with you, and I don't remember feeling this", "I thought therapy was dumm, but now I tell everybody how much this helps, because of us working together"
My work didn’t come from a book.
It grew through working with my clients.
And… through my own path.
From being disconnected from my body,
to slowly, carefully finding my way back.
Into feeling.
Into balance.
Into a life that feels more like mine.
I am proud of my life and outer accomplishments. But mostly I am because of how my emotional landscape is blooming through its seasons.
Sometimes I go on a deep adventure.
Into what I sometimes call the underworld of the psyche.
And I’ve come back: again and again.
So when you meet parts of yourself that feel confusing, intense, or hidden…
you won’t be alone there.
I care deeply about doing this work in a way that feels safe, real, and human.
To me, this isn’t just personal growth.
It’s how we gently change the world: from the inside out.
When we work together, we meet in warmth.
In a safe connection.
Without forcing. Without rushing.
We will discover your colors, your stories, your inner language: we make visible what is most true, most alive, and often most loving in you.
And sometimes… we might even laugh a little along the way.
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